Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

September Apple Picking

October 1, 2015

Apple picking in Central New York is so great.

There is a farm that we visit every year. The same country store that sells the same snacks and baked goods. The same orchard, the apple trees knotted and twisted but still neatly in a row. We watch the kids take bites out of apples as we pick, fill the bags that are then given to Daddy so that our arms don't fall off, and after we order three hotdogs, one hamburger, and gorge ourselves on apple cider donuts that stick to the roof of our mouths and leave our shirts sparkling with cinnamon and sugar.

We love it and I will miss it.

We've decided that we aren't giving up our September tradition and even though we are skeptical, we figure how can the number one apple producing state let us down, right? Right.

So off we went on a Sunday afternoon, apple picking for the first time in Washington State:

The place was huge, a real attraction with a lot of things to look at. We didn't really explore those areas too much, we wanted to pick our apples and eat lunch so we got on a wagon hitched to the back of a tractor and rode it out to the apple orchard. There we picked Jonagold apples larger than my fists. Sweet and tart the kids did more eating than picking but I didn't mind, I enjoyed twisting them off and placing them in our bag.



We picked a little under 20lbs of apples that I happily took home, peeled, and put in a crockpot to make apple sauce. The rest of them are waiting on more jars so that I can make apple pie filling.

I have a Best Friend

August 23, 2015

Recently I was asked if I had a Best Friend. I replied that other than my husband, no I do not have a Best Friend.

But I was mistaken.

At first I thought so narrowly about that term and who that person should be. They had to be around my age or maybe a few years older, maybe in the same phase of life that Im in..Maybe someone I went to school with.

This morning I am reflecting back on that question and I realized that my best friend is getting on a plane tomorrow to come live with my family. She left her job and sold her home to be with us. She loves me more than life itself, adores my children and husband, and I've been through so much with her. We fight, laugh, and cry together. She knows most everything about me and still tolerates my moods, my need to be controlling, and sometimes when I climb up on my high horse.

My mom is my best friend.

For a second I thought, "How lame." But then I realized that its actually the coolest thing in the entire world. There are some people who really want a better relationship with their mom and so it's not lame. Its awesome.

My best friend is coming to live with us (for a short while, she insists that she must have her own life and cute apartment..for what, I'm not sure!) and it will be the first time in my adult life that my mom will live in the same city as me. Im dreaming of traditions like bi weekly dinners, popping over to go on a shopping trip, rolling deep at sporting events, calling in reinforcements when I feel like Im fuckin' up as a mom, and finally having a reliable support in the same city that doesn't require a 'get to know you' phase.

I'm super happy. She is the Rhoda to my Mary.